31 Mar 2018

Ministry of Health submission says porn has become more violent

6:52 pm on 31 March 2018

The Ministry of Health says pornography is becoming increasingly violent.

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Photo: RNZ / Rebekah Parsons-King

In a submission to a Parliamentary committee, the Ministry said 80 percent of online pornography depicted violence towards women and girls.

That violence was often met with indifference or, in some cases, pleasure from the female actors.

Sex therapist Mary Hodson said she was concerned what message that was sending to impressionable teenage viewers, with Australian research finding that by 11, 28 percent of children have viewed pornographic material.

"The influences of porn happens at a time when they're intensely curious about sexuality," she said.

"That curiosity is tied in also with being uncomfortable about it and knowing that their bodies are starting to change."

Ms Hodson said viewing porn at such a young age would negatively affect relationships in later life.

"Certainly in the clinic now we see a lot of young people, perhaps early 20s whose whole learning about sexuality has been from internet porn, and they're now in their first or second relationship and they are turning up at the clinic...finding that their sexual desires are inconsistent with the nature of the relationship that they are trying to build."

Healthy relationship educator Richie Hardcore shared Ms Hodson's concerns and said porn was skewing ideas around consent.

"Increasingly the data shows us the acts that women are doing in pornography don't show a mutuality of pleasure," he said.

"There's not a discussion in pornography about 'hey does that feel good for you? Did you like that? Just tell me if you want me to stop.'"

Mr Hardcore said he had met many parents who were unaware how violent modern pornography was.

"I think a lot of people still have that conception that porn is some soft, backlit, attractive woman naked- but it's not."

He said it was important for adults to educate themselves and then have open and honest discussions about pornography with young people, to ensure they understood what behaviours were unacceptable.

"There shouldn't be a shame involved in it, because shame doesn't help anyone to grow or develop a healthy understanding of any subject matter," said Mr Hardcore.

"We need to teach young people how to talk about consent when it comes to sexual desires- and that's not shown in porn."

He said pornography education was especially crucial in a country like New Zealand where, according to Shine, police attend one domestic abuse situation every five minutes.

"We clearly have a problem in New Zealand with sexual entitlement and sexual violence," he said.

"I'm not saying there's a causative effect between pornography and being sexually violent, but it definitely shapes societal visions and ideas about what is okay in sex and how to respect women."